Posted by muffled on September 22, 2008, at 11:15:24
In reply to I feel torn about what to do with my T, posted by lemonaide on September 21, 2008, at 21:44:25
Sigh Lemonaide,
Its SO hard to know isn't it?
The reasons you gave seem valid.
BUT, they could be excuses too? Mebbe there is more to this than meets the eye? Mebbe you afraid to lose him? Mebbe you afraid he gonna dissapoint ? Dunno. Mebbe nothing. Just good to consider all angles.
Maybe you just have gotten all you can from him? This is possible.
Maybe you guys just in a slump. I used to have slumps w/T too. Then things pick up again.
Dunno HOW you s'posed to know.
Hope you can talk to your T bout this so you can be firm in knowing you have made right descion.
If you don't want to hurt him, mebbe downplay the memory thing. But still make it clear you just don't feel there's progress somehow.
Nothing wrong with switching T's I reckon, just so longs its for the right reasonas and you not running away from something is all.
I think you are an amazing person to have survived what you did and still ended up being a good person.
You take care, you sure have my admiration.
(((Lemonaide)))
Muffled
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