Posted by meme3842 on September 20, 2008, at 22:01:49
In reply to I love my T, but is she triggering my sadness?, posted by LittleGirlLost on September 19, 2008, at 20:03:05
Hi, Little Girl
You sound so sad and I feel for you. I can relate to so much of what you've said in your post, especially the part of about wanting to have mother, the longing, and feeling stuck because you want a mother first and then a relationship. I, too, am in my thirties and single and feel stuck, like I just want those mother-daughter moments. So I don't have any advice, because the longing comes in waves that feel more like surges. I think though that if you tell your therapist how you feel, how much longing the therapy provokes, that she will understand and help you weather out the feelings. Sometimes it feels good to get out of your mind and body and just let her know. Anyway, I thought I would just post and let you know that i understand.
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