Posted by muffled on September 20, 2008, at 15:50:01
In reply to Re: I love my T, but is she triggering my sadness? » DAisym, posted by LittleGirlLost on September 19, 2008, at 23:33:14
my yearning for T was bout unmet needs I think.
Mebbe grief and wanting what I didn't have.
T appears so great cuz they just there for us, unconditionally, they don't tell us we annoy them and stuff.
so of course we wish to be with them.
and safety, I have parts that rarely feel safe, and being near T they felt safer somehow, and that was a wonderful thing for them.
we trying REALLy hard to not attach to new T.
but old T we kinda did.
still there's times we get kinda messed and we'd just as soon go sleep under her front porch.
but I got another friend who kinda makes me feel safe too, so thats useful.
I think we gotta learn to soothe ourownselves cuz we can't allus expect T's to I think.
mebbe you sad cuz it winter comming on?
some people get SAD and they use them light things.
I hate meds, but I will take them if I get bad enuf, but I like to try other stuff first.
TGC
M
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