Posted by Angela2 on September 16, 2008, at 18:09:37
In reply to Re: I have no idea (long) » Dinah, posted by Nadezda on September 16, 2008, at 16:20:01
From my point of view, your therapist might be doing more harm than good for you. From what I see..he isn't helping you. I am with Lucie Lu on this one. I feel very angry with this man on your behalf. I think you mentioned that he mentioned something like "you are good at making people sympathize with you." That just sounds like...OK, then everybody with depression or anxiety or whatever schizophrenia and the lot make people feel bad for them because there are certain things they can't do in the depths of their problems. To me that's crap.
I feel like I can relate to you because I saw a T for 3 years who belittled me and said things to me that were mean but also sounded true. Let me tell you, if it hurts your feelings, and makes you feel bad, it isn't true. Anywho, I believe that seeing her, worsened my self esteem and also stunted my ability to grow positively.
Please be good to yourself Nadezda.
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