Posted by AbbieNormal on September 16, 2008, at 16:39:57
In reply to Re: I have no idea (long) » Dinah, posted by Nadezda on September 16, 2008, at 16:20:01
It's really difficult to see people post negative things about our T's. I think you've tried a bit to cover some of his poor behavior and blame yourself in your second post. But that's totally normal.
Here's an idea. Print your 2 posts and some of the replies you recieved and bring those to your next session. Let him read them. That'll give you something to talk about. Maybe if he sees his own behavior reflected back to himself, he'll see some way to work this out - even if this means giving you a referral to someone who is not so burnt out.
Although it likely sounds impossible, changing therapists can really help motivate us. Sometimes we can see our previous T's in a whole new light - and it's not so flattering.
Abbie
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