Posted by Dinah on May 6, 2008, at 16:37:52
In reply to Re: I can't do it again. I just can't. And I won't » Dinah, posted by llurpsienoodle on May 6, 2008, at 15:15:26
I wish I were there too. :(
I have my husband's approval to go to San Francisco next year, if the pattern of APA meeting/babblefest continues. (He has a solo trip he wants to take. Hah.)
I feel a sort of peace about the therapy issue. I know what I'm going to say Friday and I'm going to stick to it. I'm going to be totally nonaccusing and express my caring and fondness and my willingness to continue when he feels like he can be present. But I'm going to be absolutely firm that continuing to see a therapist who isn't really present is not an option. Been there, done that. Not doing it again. Nope.
I doubt there's a person alive who cares about their therapist more than I care about him. But I'm not doing that again.
Thanks, llurpsie.
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