Posted by Dinah on May 6, 2008, at 12:39:21
In reply to Re: I can't do it again. I just can't. And I won't. » Dinah, posted by Phillipa on May 6, 2008, at 12:26:07
I don't know what's wrong. He didn't tell me, and I wouldn't ask him to reveal anything personal. I would never intrude on his privacy and I respect the boundaries.
But I know that after Katrina, his life was in turmoil and he quit being emotionally present in session and it drove me frantic. He started being present again when his life got better. And now something in his life is keeping him from being emotionally present again. And I just can't go through that again. It's demeaning and upsetting and really traumatizing.
I am upset. I don't want to leave him, and I don't want him to terminate me. And I wouldn't be doing that at all. Just stepping back is all. Not terminating.
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