Posted by Happyflower on April 21, 2008, at 19:02:29
In reply to I have to wonder..., posted by LadyBug on April 21, 2008, at 17:25:07
Hi Ladybug,
First of all (((((Ladybug))))
I think if you truly don't want to go, then don't. You don't need to call, you already told her already.
Now eventually it might be good to have some closure on this with her when you are ready. Would you be willing to start with a fresh T?
I am all for working things out with her, but if it isn't working for you, and she can't help you which you truly need, it is time to move on. I cared a lot about my old T, but when it came clear that things between us would never be okay, and the things he said would be hard to let go, I left. Now I am working with a wonderful T, and making progress. It can happen for you too.But for some reason, I feel you might not want to leave because you care for her so much, and are angry with her for "abandoning" you through one of the most painful periods in your life. Do you think you can move past this and have the relationship be beneficial to you again? If not, if she has hurt you beyond repair, please get someone else. I care about you and want you to be okay. Take care of yourself.
poster:Happyflower
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