Posted by Annierose on April 21, 2008, at 17:54:48
In reply to I have to wonder..., posted by LadyBug on April 21, 2008, at 17:25:07
Well ... I think you are hoping for some kind of response from your therapist. I obviously do not know you or her so I can only imagine how my therapist would handle this scenario.
First of all, if I told her that I would not be there, then she would not hold my appointment for me. AND she would do nothing else. Maybe she would call in a week or two to confirm that I have terminated my treatment with her, or maybe she would send a letter. But that would be it. Even though she may not agree with my decision, she would accept it.
If you are hurt and clearly you are, the best way to resolve this turmoil is to continue the dialogue. Sometimes time away can help, other times it increases the misunderstanding.
I hope you feel better soon. I can understand why you are hurt and discouraged. But don't throw away a long term relationship without giving it at least one session to say "good-bye".
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thread:824626
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