Posted by seldomseen on April 6, 2008, at 20:22:48
In reply to Re: I want to hate my old T » Happyflower, posted by seldomseen on April 6, 2008, at 19:59:05
your ability not to demonize your old T, despite all the hurt, is progress.
It's so much easier to place people into categories of all good and all bad. It saves us a lot of work, but deprives us of any of the good that may have been present in the relationship.
I've been working a lot on this with an ex-boyfriend of mine. I am continually surprised (and confused) that I am still happy to see him when I do.
Just FYI I guess.
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