Re: One more thing ... » crushedout

Posted by Annierose on April 3, 2008, at 20:40:13

In reply to Re: One more thing ..., posted by crushedout on April 3, 2008, at 20:26:45

>>> and since it causes suffering, the payoff seemed to indicate that termination would be best.
I don't think your therapist is "causing" the suffering, rather examining the hurt in your life is painful and causing you to sort of re-visit that hurt and THAT is what's causing you to suffer. Not her. She is just the vehicle.
And ignoring the pain, well, speaking for myself, that doesn't work for long either. It's deep within us and rears its ugly head whenever or wherever it wants to.

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i feel sick with grief when i think about it crushedout 4/3/08
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if that sounded sarcastic, it was unintended. (nm) crushedout 4/3/08
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p.s. » crushedout crushedout 4/4/08
oops above post for raisinb (nm) crushedout 4/4/08
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