Posted by rskontos on March 3, 2008, at 9:04:08
In reply to The reality......, posted by twinleaf on March 2, 2008, at 19:47:57
Twinleaf, I think you make some really good points. But this has been five years. How long has he been in therapy. And I thought it was not a good idea for the marriage counselor to see one of the couple as an individual. I truly hope Twinleaf is right that maybe with some time he will open back up to you Racer. I hear how much you love him and miss him.
Maybe he will see the light. Good luck with your decision. Know that I will support you in anything you decide to do as I see you an the individual that needs to take care of herself. I also see an intelligent woman that will make a decision for herself but thinks of the man she loves even if it doesn't seem like he is necessarily doing that at this point.
Take care, this is a tough situation. But as always you will handle this with grace and dignity. Otherwise you would have bailed a long time ago.
rsk
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