Posted by wishingstar on March 2, 2008, at 18:57:31
In reply to Re: Jealousy is a good aphrodisiac, posted by caraher on March 2, 2008, at 17:50:11
I have nothing productive to offer other than empathy and to say, I understand! This is perhaps one of biggest issues in my relationship as well, and we're not even married. There is so much emotion and meaning behind sex (at least for many) and the rejection hurts. Not to discount the physical desire piece! You're a woman and have sexual needs just like everyone else, and your husband is lucky to have someone like you who has been so patient with him. I'm wondering if he'd hear you on this issue more if you proposed this very idea to him - that if he isnt interested, then would be ok with you looking elsewhere for it? Without knowing him or anything about your marriage, I wonder if this might be a reality shock for him enough to make him realize that this really is an issue.
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