Posted by rskontos on January 28, 2008, at 9:51:37
In reply to I feel so alone- no T for 10 days, posted by LlurpsieNoodle on January 28, 2008, at 8:46:02
Ll, I am sorry your T is going away, and I think mine is too available. It is bad when you are in a place when you need/want them more than can be there and they are not available. I am trying to push mine away and he thinks we need to meet more often and I just don't want to. He says it is a trust issue. And I say it is just plain too hard. But I digress about me. Sorry
I watched a movie over the weekend that really impacted me and it helped me alot but I still don't want to go. But I have some words that might help you and I will get to them soon.
I know you are alone IRL life but I have noticed, although I am not posting alot, I do read, that you have tons of support on Babble--dont discount that. You have loads of people here that will be here for you. Just wait and see you will have many responses. I hope you can find some things to do until the 10 days are gone and T returns and H returns. I often enjoy my H being gone but after 20 years of marriage and he has always traveled alot I have gotten used what has to be.
I too would find the days looming but as the words I took from that movie that meant alotto said , "Live in the moment". I keep thinking about it. So try until T returns to "Live in the Moment" and see what you can accomplish. And then think what you might have to tell him, as a gift...
....good luck and keep posting as it helps to give it to the boards and get it out, another good thing from the movie was, "get the trash out of your mind".....go post away.....
rsk
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