Posted by muffled on November 3, 2007, at 19:22:57
In reply to Thanks Everybody - Follow-up, posted by JoniS on November 3, 2007, at 19:05:59
Whoah....he kinda spilled it?! Poor guy. Sigh, he sounds like he is an OK guy. Dunno s'up w/his woman and her family. Well, welcome to the world of looser boundaries. You can learn alot from looser boundaries. How he is doing his best to do the right thing etc, that despite our best efforts things still go wrong, but we try to take care of ourselves as best we can. We go on. So I have been in a vaguely similiar situ, and I just had to trust that my T could take care of herself, that there was nothing I could do, it wasn't my job to take care of her(like I did my ma).
The one thing I could do was try and pray to my higher power for her situation. I even fasted. At least I felt I was doing SOMEthing.
Take care, hope you OK.
M
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