Posted by JoniS on November 3, 2007, at 19:05:59
In reply to obsessing, posted by JoniS on November 1, 2007, at 8:53:17
All of you were an encouragement to me. I appreciate your posts very much.
He will be on sebbatical from Jan-March, but really, I will only see him probably 2 times in Nov & 2 times in Dec.
I called him yesterday because I couldn't get him off my mind. Thats even what I said when I called him. He asked if I was ok, I said yes, I was just worried about him. We had probably just a 5 minute conversation, but it was heartbreaking. He hasn't been sleeping nights, he's going to counseling but she is not willing to go (and she is a counselor herself - go figure). She was out of town at her mother's birthday party. He said he figured he should let her go by herself. But, he also said that her 7 sisters would probably not support him with the marriage. Of course he said He didn't want his situation to affect his counseling clients. I told him we know he's human and we could see that he was not doing well. He said that he didn't think it (the marriage) would deteriorate so quickly. He said it was really his fault, and that he worked too much. He appreciated my call.
My heart still aches for him. I really hope their relationship can be restored. I still can't get them off my mind.
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