Posted by rskontos on October 27, 2007, at 17:13:51
In reply to Re: therapy tomorrow; will take the risk head-on » RealMe, posted by DAisym on October 27, 2007, at 16:20:31
DAisym and RealMe both of you in your open discussion of the sexual aspects have really made me think about my own issues on sex and have helped to make me think deeper about it. I admire you both for your frankness. The discussions about made me in my last therapy session start a discussion about my own and your statement Daisym about power place "having sex with someone gives me power and pull with them or over them as RealMe stated really struck a cord with me. That is what I did. I am now married and not so much now. But in my single years I did that or sometimes I did the defensive thing. My current T is my only therapist so I don' t have that part going on now. But you guys have helped me tap into more of why I did the things I did and my current opinion on sex. Which I need to work on to get healthy about. I always thought I changed when I became a mother but I think I just split in my thoughts but I always had issues regarding it and didn't recognize why or what exactly.
Do you think we sometimes feel for our T's because they feel safe and that opens up sexual feelings or is it always from the CSA issues or abuse issues?
Realme you are really doing amazing things and it has inspired me to be more open with my T. It has been a short time for me with my T and she commented on that last time. I don't think we are going to fast and if we were she would slow us down I am sure. But I wanted to say thanks to you and everyone else for the inspiration. rk
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