Posted by RealMe on October 28, 2007, at 9:33:59
In reply to Re: therapy tomorrow; will take the risk head-on » RealMe, posted by DAisym on October 27, 2007, at 16:20:31
Daisy
You got me to thinking; why do I have sexual feeling for my T; they come and go; Why when I was dating was I so willing to have sex with a guy right away. I guess then I thought I owed it to them for being nice and taking me to dinner or a movie, etc. Maybe this is why I think it about my therapist too. It is a way to pay him for being nice to me. I think this was the reason back in childhood. This man wants to have sex with me, and he buys me little presents, and so as much as it is painful, I will do it. Same with my older brother. Actually he was the first. He would let me look at his stamp collection or look through his telescope, etc if I would let him have his way with me.
I never thought about the power part. I will have to give that more thought. As for something inevitable, I guess that fits more with the way of giving sex to a guy because he wants it and he's been nice to me, and so it is inevitable, sort of.
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