Posted by twinleaf on October 25, 2007, at 23:09:02
In reply to Re: therapy tomorrow; will take the risk head-on, posted by RealMe on October 25, 2007, at 22:31:32
I think it's a wonderful idea. Think of where you were just a few weeks ago- getting angry and then feeling you were not a good fit- and that maybe you should even leave him. Now you are understanding that the angry feelings are mostly a reaction to ones that are loving and intimate- they are going to keep you safe from getting close- and then getting really hurt. I can't imagine anything more useful than being at a point where you can share all this with him.
P.S. I'm talking as though it's easy! It's terribly hard. But I'm going
to try to do it, too, at least a bit more, in my Friday appointment.
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