Posted by Poet on October 13, 2007, at 12:22:56
Tapping really helps, my T is onto something with this technique. She told me where to tap and I was able to tell her where it happened (she knows what happened) and what my fantasy is of what I would do to him as payback. Which is evil, but it made my inner 10-year-old smile.
She said that by letting some of my anger out I was empowering myself, taking the power he had over me away from him. I have to try not to be angry at myself as I was the victim. That is hard as my brain tells me that had I done something way back then I wouldn't be as messed up as I am now. I need to tap around that issue.
She said that when I run into my brother I should tap on my wrist and in my head say "I am calm, I am relaxed." Hope it works then again I hope I never see him again, but fat chance of that.
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