Posted by twinleaf on September 30, 2007, at 14:22:50
In reply to Re: horrible things.. triggers and more » twinleaf, posted by Dory on September 30, 2007, at 7:32:52
I'm sorry, Dory. I really mispoke. I don't think I understood how painful it is for you to have a sort of entertaining surface self, while underneath you don't feel entitled to even "have" your own feelings.
I have read, several times, that emotional indifference and neglect is even more serious that physical or sexual abuse. They are all terrible, but being emotionaly neglected does lead to the feeling that you are suposed to take care of everyone else, but aren't entitled to any love, regard or care for yourself as you really are.
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