Posted by RealMe on August 24, 2007, at 22:55:35
In reply to Re: hate this transference stuff » RealMe, posted by DAisym on August 24, 2007, at 22:26:53
You are right. He said the words very softly as we were walking toward the door. It really helps that you guys are here and can help put some perspective on things. I think I can be okay now. I just hope he doesn't email me back with some vague comment as he has been prone to do sometimes. That will just set me off again. But you are right Daisy, I would not want a therapy where the relationship wasn't part of the whole package. In fact I think ultimately it becomes the main thing in therapy as it speaks to what happens with other relationships in the present.
My T says he doesn't think I really trust him yet, and of course I protested. But I think he is right. I still sit across the room from him and was looking at what it would be like if I sat on the couch near him. Maybe I should surprise him. No; I would be so uncomfortable. I feel like I am stuck where I am now even though he said it would be okay to sit on the couch near him at at right angle from his chair. Too scary.
Oz
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