Posted by OzLand on July 29, 2007, at 14:15:47
In reply to Re: My DH called me fat and I couldn't do any better » OzLand, posted by slugdoo on July 29, 2007, at 13:59:40
Yes he stayed by my side, and when I am down he knows how to kick me metaphorically. So, I have to act strong around him so he doesn't take advantage of me seeming weak. Also, when we went to see the doctor about my doing ECT after I talked to the doctor and it was determined I could do ECT outpatient, my husband says gee; I don't know if I can cope with her being at home for this. So, in the hospital I went for two and a half weeks of pure hell--not the best place in the world by anymeans. The highlight of my day was when the ECT doc came to visit with me each day to talk and see how I was doing. Whoopi!
So, maybe he should have divorced me; sometimes I think I should divorce him. I am the one out working while he stays home and works around for about two hours and then takes a four hour break before working another two hours and then another four hour break. Actually it's a lot if he works three hours in a day around the house. So, who's depressed??? He has turned into an old crank.
Sorry; not what you might think. He is present but not at all supportive emotionally.
Oz
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