Posted by OzLand on July 28, 2007, at 23:29:37
In reply to My DH called me fat and I couldn't do any better, posted by slugdoo on July 28, 2007, at 21:10:38
No you are not a bad person; I remember when I went to the hospital at Menninger's and was inpatient for over two year. My mother-in-law said to my husband that perhaps he should divorce me because I was sick and maybe would never get better. My husband never told me about this but one of my sister-in-law's did. I could not believe it, and so I never had as close of a relationship with my mother-in-law again until very recently before she died.
You have to take care of yourself first or you are no good to anyone else.
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