Posted by OzLand on July 29, 2007, at 22:57:21
In reply to Re: My DH called me fat and I couldn't do any better » OzLand, posted by slugdoo on July 29, 2007, at 21:34:51
Sometimes my husband is nice and sometimes he is an a-hole. Right now I am not happy with him because he alienated a lot of people, some where/are my friends, and sometimes I wonder if he doesn't do this so I won't have friends. Just when I start feeling good about a support network, he tries to pull the rug out from under me. I don't like that at all.
Now he talks about going back to Topeka, Kansas. I didn't want to leave; I didn't want to leave my really good job, but he had to go to Chicago. Now he wants to go back!!! What is that all about? Actually I still have friends back there too, and so I could see going back there, but not now while I am in therapy. I told him I hate living in the burbs and want to move to Chicago. I lived there when I was in college and later grad school for one of the years before we went back to Kansas, and I commuted every week from Kansas to Chicago--built up a lot of frequent flyer miles. Monday through Wednesday in Chicago, and Thursday through Sunday in Topeka. What a life; where did I ever get the energy.
Sorry if I made him sound like a sadist, but sometimes he acts like one.
Oz
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