Posted by antigua3 on July 13, 2007, at 10:31:09
In reply to Re: Tormented my Pdoc might terminate me (long **csa), posted by OzLand on July 13, 2007, at 6:44:13
> I have not read all the threads as I have to get ready for work, but I agree with Maria. I would take the first available appointment and then be direct with him as to my fears that he plans to terminate me. I would also let him know of the past experience so he knows the context of your concerns. He may not be the best male "therapist" to work on issues related to your father. You likely need a male who is more warm and caring. My take.
With all due respect, it's not as easy as you make it sound. If it were, I wouldn't be here again. It's the "again" that's so painful. IMO, running from male T to male T is not going to change things. I truly don't know if I could ever open up again, or that I should even try. One bad apple, maybe, but more than one signifies a big problem to me. It's the pattern that needs to be addressed.
I hope you understand what I mean. I'm not trying to be hurtful, and I do appreciate your suggestion, and, of course, you're probably right, but I just don't know if I could ever gather up the strength again.
thanks,
antigua
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