Posted by 10derHeart on July 3, 2007, at 13:07:13
In reply to Re: I hate being angry with my T :-( » 10derHeart, posted by TherapyGirl on June 30, 2007, at 19:05:47
I know how miserable you've been with your T. I have been following those posts, I just never can think of anything useful to say. It sounds like one of the most frustrating situations I've seen written about here. But not hopeless (though I can imagine you often feel that way) - as long as you two are still talking, something can break through. I do believe that.
With me, I *guess* it'll be resolved. This isn't the first time he's done it, but he isn't completely dense about how it effects me, either, and is always willing to talk about it. It's just such a sharp, overwhelming emotion I have when he decides he *must* take these phone calls before we are fininshed, that I can hardly speak about it. I can never decide whether I'm possibly a selfish b**ch who can't understand he's a human being with other priorities sometimes, or whether he's just wrong on his timing and I'm right, or a little of both. So confusing.
They are yucky, uncomfortable places. I hope the best for you, too, and that your T. finally finds some way to hear you. Thanks for understanding, (((TG.)))
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