Posted by sunnydays on June 18, 2007, at 17:08:40
In reply to My current T messed up today, posted by crushedout on June 18, 2007, at 16:18:19
Is it at all possible you misinterpreted what your ex-T meant by making you the CD? For example, I would think that it would be fine for my T to make me a CD - I'm not sure I see that as unethical, even if they were romantic. That in itself could be easily defended as being calming songs or something.
But I'm just curious as to if it's possible you misinterpreted the whole thing -- is it possible she really was trying to be therapeutic? I mean, my current T has told me I'm pretty and things like that, but it's very clear to me that he's not looking to extend our relationship or anything. I mean, I think you've said she's married, so I'm wondering why she would have been trying to seduce you, if that's what she was trying to do.
I'm not saying that you did misinterpret - I have no way of knowing. But you are so angry at your other T that I can see why your current T would be worried about being next. I'm not even sure whether she shouldn't have told you that. It seems like a situation that could seem very threatening to many Ts, and it seems like many Ts might terminate a client if they felt in danger of being reported. It's something I would think would be appropriate for you to be aware of, in case it seems like your T was hesitant to fully endorse your actions towards your ex-t. Then you might understand where that was coming from.
Be very clear with what you are expecting if you report your ex-T. It probably won't ruin her life, although it might be upsetting for a while. She probably won't lose her license or even be put on probation. They may never even respond to you. Just be careful so you aren't hurt if nothing happens.
sunnydays
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