Posted by crushedout on June 18, 2007, at 17:23:42
In reply to Re: My current T messed up today » crushedout, posted by sunnydays on June 18, 2007, at 17:08:40
i do not mean to be rude.my ex-T's CD to me had very inappropriate songs on it. but it was also in a context which was inappropriate and it's too long a story for me to get into right now.
if you or my current T heard the CD, i'm sure you would agree with me. i don't really want to have to convince anyone of this right now though.
in any event, that is only one of the unethical things she did. and i don't have any delusions about what i expect to happen. i just want her to be answerable. i haven't decided what i'm going to do.
i totally disagree that it was appropriate for my current t to share her fears with me. that put me in an awful position. and there is nothing unusual about my anger. as i explained to her, i have had many previous ongoing relationships with therapists--none of them ever ended badly.
of course it's natural for anyone to worry in her position--we are all selfish after all. but that doesn't make it right for me to have to worry about that on top of everything else.
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