Posted by Dory on June 11, 2007, at 18:51:05
In reply to Re: Life is complicated- extra long, posted by B2chica on June 11, 2007, at 8:28:00
i can't talk about certain things here because i am afraid it would be found and it would cause a lot of damage. i know it's a remote possibility, but in my case it's a higher risk than for most.
you're right, wanting emotional stuff from him makes him one more person who could let me down... but it could also be a chance to have one person prove my theories wrong... and i need to learn from someone what these things are about. He is doing what is called limited re-parenting.. he is trying to help me learn what i did not learn early in life, like how to manage my emotions and my needs from other people.
i would so sign up for a place that gave contact like that. Your hug with your friend sounds so nice.. happy for you, sad for me
thanx for responding
poster:Dory
thread:761782
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