Posted by B2chica on June 8, 2007, at 7:57:32
In reply to Life is complicated, posted by Dory on June 8, 2007, at 0:12:52
Don't feel guilty about getting hugs here...there are enough things in life to feel guilt about...that is not one of them. we care here, and understand. (that's what i love about this place)
-and though your life seems stuck in chaos mode, it's not. you must muttle through the chaos to attain a successful (though harrowing) journey.and it seems we all get to a point where we feel we are whining about our issues...but i think that's because we ruminate so much on them hoping that that next time around we will Finally figure out Why, or Finally feel O.K. about our past....though it doesn't seem to happen that way, we still try.
you are NOT whining...you are just trying to figure out WHY you hurt So much.and (hopefully :) ) your T will not tell you to 'get over it'. that's just not how it works...i wish it did. in my eyes...if you have to tell them one thing that happened 100 different ways, to help you feel even just a little bit better than so be it. Your T should understand this, if they don't...they're in the wrong field and you have the wrong T.
i'm sorry you are struggling financially right now. i hear that. i am currently seeing T only once a month since that's all i can afford (and i even have insurance). i am beginning to wish i could see her more often...'things' are starting up again, but i just don't have the money.
maybe you could just decrease frequency rather than dropping T all together?i'm sorry Dory. and i know this sounds droll, but just hang in there. in the end you will shine through. i know it.
until then, take gentle care of yourself.
cares
b2c.
poster:B2chica
thread:761782
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