Posted by sunnydays on June 9, 2007, at 21:42:04
In reply to Re: hard to leave..., posted by Dory on June 9, 2007, at 18:41:35
> Hi Sunny, i'm sorry it's so hard for you at the end and between sessions. i feel sad that it is that way but i am also puzzled and curious about it. i am wondering if it is so overpowering because you seem him as a parent. When i had a strong romantic sort of transfernce for my former T i found being apart harder than i do now with my new T. i am curious about the pain of separation in relation to the type of bond or transference one has. i hope this isn't side-tracking your thread.
**** Not a side-track at all. I have no idea why it's so difficult sometimes and not others. I do think it's harder when I'm in a more little-girl place than when I'm feeling more adult. The little girl just wants to be taken care of and doesn't like feeling like she's being sent away.sunnydays
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