Posted by Happyflower on June 2, 2007, at 17:45:00
In reply to Re: Why do T's tell us that they think of us?, posted by JoniS on June 2, 2007, at 13:33:54
I think the thing about being special is more about them treating us special like we are special to them or more important than other clients. We are all special in our own way, but T's have to be careful not to make us feel we are very special to them, like their real life relationships. I know I am not explaining this very well. Maybe it is when they start treating us different than other clients, ex. longer sessions, more disclosure, etc. They need to be objective, so they have to be careful how special we are to them in order to do so.
I think I might ask my T the question. But it is kinda one of those, what do you think of me, questions. I am not sure I want to put him on th espot like that. But I am wondering what he thinks when he thinks of me .
I know T's think about their clients, even when they say they don't take their work home with them. But why would he tell me this? Why is it important for me to know he thinks about me? Just wondering.
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