Posted by JoniS on June 2, 2007, at 13:33:54
In reply to Why do T's tell us that they think of us?, posted by Happyflower on June 1, 2007, at 22:11:29
Happyflower,
I realize that T's and us both have to have boundaries, but I don't necessarily think your T is doing something weird or wrong unless you are becoming very uncomfortable with it, or you feel like he's flirting. I think it's awesome that your T thinks of you often and lets you know. It sounds like he is genuine, and like sunnydays said, what's wrong with our T's letting us know they think of us? My T has probably told me that 2-3 times over the past 4 years. I guess it's possible he is telling you that so that the feelings dont gain power over him, but obviously you are special to him, and hopefully it's in a professional T-to-Client sort of way. Ask him the question you said you'll ask sometime. Seems like you have that right, afterall, he brought it up.
I would love it if ,my T thought of me that often. Enjoy the good feeling - that's what I'd do.
poster:JoniS
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