Posted by Happyflower on June 1, 2007, at 22:11:29
My T has several times, and it usually is at the very beginning of my session. It almost seems like he has to get it out or something, like keeping it to himself is not good. It does feel good to hear this but it makes us vunerable to feeling special to the T, which isn't what a T 's suppose to do.
I wonder if they are preoccupied with a client, and telling them, sort of takes the energy out of it for them, maybe make it not happen as much for them. I remember people on Babble saying if we have feelings for our T's we should tell them , because it takes the power away from it, and the feelings become less intense. So I wonder if T's do this trick for themselves too.
My T has told me several times he doesn't know why but he thinks of me everytime he see's or hears a trumpet playing. He thinks of me when he waters his trumpet vine, he thinks of me a lot it seems on all different kind of stuff. I just wonder why he tells me, it feels sort of weird. There are lots of stuff that reminds him of me.It feels good but it is kind of scary too. He actually told me he missed me at the gym when I wasn't there. Does it seem that I am on my T's mind too much to you all? I kinda think so.
One time my allergist smacked me on the butt after a concert I was in and he came back stage. Okay, so I told my T about it, about this allergist who was very openly flirting with me.
Well he knows my allergist wife, because she is a med. specialist too, and my T was one of her patients before. So anyways they were at this chartity event, and he said all the could think about when he saw my allergist, was that he smacked my butt and was flirting with me, and when he saw his wife, all he could think was, hey your DH is flirting and smacking happyflowers butt. I thought this was funny, but it seems like he tells me alot about thinking of me.One of these days I am going to actually ask him what he thinks about when he thinks of me or is reminded of me. I mean he says he thinks of me, but what is he thinking? LOL
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