Posted by sunnydays on May 27, 2007, at 9:40:18
In reply to Re: 4 years today, posted by spalding on May 26, 2007, at 22:04:31
I think my T has amazing boundaries. He would never give me a hug, but I do believe he would accept a gift as long as it was small and not overly extravagant. I would only give it as a way to commemorate our relationship, not as some sort of reward or anything. And there are a lot of different people that come to this site. I personally try not to make assumptions about them or their Ts. My T is one of the most genuine people on the planet, and has told me he has loving feelings for me, even though that would be a boundary crosser for many Ts. He thought a lot before doing it and explained how it wasn't sexual or anything. I saw it as totally appropriate and it didn't raise any expectations in me that we'd have some relationship other than the one we have now.
Please be considerate of other people's feelings.
sunnydays
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