Posted by gazo on April 19, 2007, at 9:18:01
In reply to Re: Pity party » Daisym, posted by annierose on April 19, 2007, at 7:08:12
oh daisy.. i am so sorry it's hard. :o(
you know this already, but these things come in waves.. parts of us send these things even when the rest of us don't know why.
I'm a big believer in the problem of right brain communication issues. Our speech center is in the left brain, along with all of our logic processes.. that voice in our head is from there. The right brain is pretty much nonverbal, but it has the creative center and a lot more emotionality. Split brain patients will take something from their closet with one hand and the other hand will select something else and they don't know why... it's kinda of like that when we are distressed sometimes.
you don't always have to *know* why. you don't always have to have a logical answer. SOmetimes you just need to nurture the feeling you.
try not to pull back from your T if you can.. as antigua said.. reach back.
be gentle with yourself.. allow yourself permission to be sad
much love and peace
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