Posted by vwoolf on February 18, 2007, at 10:59:08
In reply to Re: How would you react`?, posted by frida on February 18, 2007, at 10:36:37
I would be looking for someone else before I developed too much of an attachment to this T. He does not appear to have your best interests at heart if he can leave you waiting for six weeks when you have clearly expressed your distress. With a history like yours, I might look for a female therapist who has some background in trauma. A good place to start looking might be your nearest Rape Crisis organisation.
Sorry, I may sound dogmatic, but it all feels wrong to me. You need to stregthen yourself in a nuturing, supportive, safe relationship. This doesn't feel like any of these things. If you really like him, perhaps you can go back to him once you are stronger.
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