Posted by Dinah on January 25, 2007, at 9:56:08
In reply to My T's Appearance, posted by mair on January 23, 2007, at 21:39:03
I'm not sure that I can add anything to what others have said. I do think it's perfectly natural to have these feelings.
I would guess that it's also perfectly natural to have a self protective urge to pull back from her.
I know you feel reluctant to bridge these issues with her, but someotimes I've personally found that it's more uncomfortable for me to have the unspoken out there than an actual discussion. Maybe you could stick the toe in the water by saying a bit of how you're feeling and see how she reacts? It's hard to go through these things, but it's harder if you feel like you're in them alone.
((((Mair))))
((((Mair's therapist))))
poster:Dinah
thread:725771
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