Posted by ElaineM on November 28, 2006, at 12:51:00
In reply to im still around, posted by wishingstar on November 27, 2006, at 16:43:25
Wishingstar, glad to see you're around again. It sounds like alot of stuff has been happening. I'm glad that you think a medication is making a bit of a difference - even if it's small. I know you wondered about that before. It's encouraging to hear.
And it sounds like you're at a slightly different place regarding what happened with Anne. The one part that touched me was when you said, "In a way, that's all I needed to hear to start letting it go." Maybe I'm really sentimental today, but I thought that sounded beautiful. The idea beautiful. I guess cause letting go doesn't mean anything like forgetting, or not dealing with - but more like an accepting or something. It sounds like Ginny is a help. I'm glad she's supportive of both reasonings (ie. transference, but also the real-life exchange that went on - cause it did). I'm happy for you that it doesn't hurt quite the same way now as it did at the beginning - not to say it's still not with you. It's okay to still miss Anne and Laurie - they were part of your life. But I also think you deserve to have Ginny :-)
Anyways, it's nice to hear from you, though I'm sorry your going through a low part right now.
((((WS)))))
Blove, EL
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