Posted by TherapyGirl on October 13, 2006, at 16:32:00
In reply to annierose, i 'took' you to therapy with me..., posted by bent on October 13, 2006, at 12:29:31
Yeah, my T is big on me asking for what I need, too. She generally does what she can to make it easier, though. Like when I want her to sit on the couch with me and hold me, she lets me ask if she'll come sit beside me. I don't actually have to say, "Will you hold me?" That would be *way* too hard.
So I'm wondering if you make an attempt to ask her, if she'll make it easier for you? Maybe you feel like you've already tried that. If so, maybe you could talk about asking for what you need in the context of her letting you off the hook for some part of it. I may not be making any sense. I might try this again later. I'm working on a monster migraine right now.
(((((((Bent))))))))
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