Posted by muffled on October 2, 2006, at 22:12:24
In reply to Re: Hubby trubble**trigger?**, posted by ClearSkies on October 2, 2006, at 13:16:12
> My personal experience with this has been that my husband has no way of knowing that I'm not on the same page with him at any given time. I tried sending him thought messages but he didn't pick up at all.
***LOL! :-)
> My T suggested I get kind of playful with him to help slow the process down. He's already there, but I'm just arriving, so to speak. We laugh together easily, so it's no stretch to turn his advances into a giggling cuddlefest before going any further. It helps a lot with our intimacy.
***I've always tried to get it over with asap :-(
I dunno bout intimacy. Never really done it. I go so far and BANG, all hit my wall of safety. Sometimes I can pretend I'm not me, and I try and talk in the third person w/T. Ah, hell. I not good at talking bout this stuff. Not when its about ME.> My husband travels a lot in his work and it feels like our heads are on totally different time lines...
***yeah. My hubby like a total stranger sometimes, to the irl kids too.
>
> Muffled, you are not bad. I don't know if you said you were bad, but I thought I'd say it anyway.
>
***Aw CS, you wonderful, thanks for your input into this thorny (or perhaps I should say horney!!!LOL) problem I have.
(uh oh, here comes wacko Mufflie!!!!LOL!!!!)
Muffled
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