Bert was there.

Posted by Tamar on June 14, 2006, at 17:14:57

In reply to Will he be there?, posted by Tamar on June 13, 2006, at 17:06:23

In fact, he was early. He was there before me.
I told him I'd been afraid he wouldn't be there and he said, "It's that basic, is it?" Uh, yeah. Because he wasn't there the previous week. I said I'd be content if I could leave the session feeling sure he'd be at the next one. And I think we managed that.
But I still feel pretty crap. I told him I wanted comfort and he didn't respond.
I feel so far away from him. I really really want to feel connected but everything I say seems to push his boundary buttons. I have told him in the past that I want to feel emotionally close to him; he didn't say anything in response to that either. And I also told him once that sometimes I feel like I'm falling and I want to reach out to him to ask him to help steady me (metaphorically). And he didn't say anything in response to that.
What am I doing wrong? Why won't he answer me? I know, I know. I have to ask *him* that. But I don't know if he'll answer that either...
Sigh.
It feels so difficult right now.

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Will he be there? Tamar 6/13/06
Re: Will he be there? » Tamar Annierose 6/13/06
Re: Will he be there? » Tamar Poet 6/13/06
Re: Will he be there? » Poet wishingstar 6/13/06
He'd better be there. » Tamar Dinah 6/13/06
Re: He'd better be there. antigua 6/13/06
Or you could call him... muffled 6/13/06
Re: Will he be there? » Tamar Daisym 6/14/06
Re: Or you could call him... frida 6/14/06
Bert was there. Tamar 6/14/06
Re: Bert was there. » Tamar Poet 6/14/06
Re: Bert was there. » Tamar annierose 6/14/06
You know what I think :-) » Tamar orchid 6/14/06
Re: Bert was there. » Poet Tamar 6/15/06
Re: Bert was there. » annierose Tamar 6/15/06
Re: You know what I think :-) » orchid Tamar 6/15/06
Re: You know what I think :-) » Tamar Dinah 6/15/06
I can perfectly understand the feeling, but yet... » Tamar orchid 6/15/06
Re: I can perfectly understand the feeling, but yet... happyflower 6/15/06
Of course, but only if T is willing to do his part » happyflower orchid 6/15/06
Re: You know what I think :-) » Dinah sleepygirl 6/15/06

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