Posted by Dinah on June 12, 2006, at 9:43:14
In reply to Re: Maybe it is, a bit, posted by happyflower on June 12, 2006, at 9:35:54
He doesn't have to die to you, or not be special to you. You just need to do a slight readjustment in your view of him.
I do it all the time in all my relationships.
He never could be what you wanted him to be, any more than my therapist could ever have been what I wanted him to be.
But that doesn't mean he can't be something good and valuable.
poster:Dinah
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