Posted by fairywings on April 20, 2006, at 10:42:39
In reply to Re: need support and suggestions please » fairywings, posted by LadyBug on April 19, 2006, at 15:12:01
Ladybug, I remember when you posted about this - how your husband lost his job, and where you were with everything emotionally at the time. I'm so sorry!
I wish there were some way you could make it. It's hard to stay bec. you feel you have no way out. I know what it's like to be in a marriage with someone you don't love. My mom did that - she had 4 kids too, and my dad was horrible! She really died inside - very sad.
I hope you can find a way. Are your kids almost grown? Are you able to take classes. Does your husband help you at all around the house or with the kids so you could take classes? I don't get it why some men think we should just be able to move on, "get over it", it's such a huge betrayal.
I understand how you feel toward your husband, and how hard it is to be civil, and the anger and hurt. My heart is broken, I"m sure yours is too. Wish we could give eachother a hug.....how about a cyberhug?
((((ladybug)))
fw
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