Posted by jammerlich on April 18, 2006, at 11:25:07
In reply to well done! (nm) » jammerlich, posted by Anneke on April 17, 2006, at 19:01:55
Well I got an email back from her today. It basically laid out everything she has to do today and it sounds like she's going to be out ALL day and into the evening; much like she would have been tomorrow had we gone to see her sister as planned.
Her husband may very well be ill, but I'm having a hard time believing he's the reason we aren't going. What difference does it make whether she's in or out of town - she's still gone all day? I have a feeling something more important came up or she realized she'd planned too much for the week and needed to scale back; and instead of taking the responsibility herself, she pinned it on him. I've done things like that before myself. But I need to try not to because it feels really rotten to be on the other end of it.
Her whole email just left me feeling terrible. I wonder if I didn't write back, how long it'd take her to notice. I think she keeps herself really busy to keep her mind off her own problems, but I wonder if that doesn't come at the expense of her relationships. I think she may get so busy she forgets about people.
I don't know. I just feel really awful and can't stop crying.
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