Posted by milly on April 17, 2006, at 13:54:38
In reply to Re: frightful row » milly, posted by muffled on April 17, 2006, at 13:35:57
> Hey Milly,
> Is there any possibility of your hubby meeting your T at a couples session or something?** they have met at the beginning of my therapy because I was totally dependant on hubby to feel even remotely safe and even then I could manage to think he was 'on their side'. But my therapy has ended now so hubby sees me obviously grieving a relationship which he had no understanding of and no part of
> I am having a similar prob. in that I am not connecting well w/my hubby. Sure as hell don't wanto screw him. Ugh! Women and men tend to be different that way.
** yep very different which was why I thought it might work!
> I'm glad you felt releived more than rejected that your hubby didn't want sex. Still kinda hurts though eh? :-(
** yeah didn't want it but 'what the hecks wrong with me if you don't want it'!!!
> My T is a woman so I don't have the same prob. as you.
> IMO it DOES sound like you need to work on your relationship w/hubby. My T has been at me about my relationship w/hubby too. Sigh.**Yep I do!
> urgh, its all so confusing isn't it? Is your hubby the preacher? I get people mixed up, sorry.
** good memory, yes he is which doesn't help right now
> Anyhow, hope things can get better for you soon.
> Take care,
> muffled
> *** thanks muffled (I'm so glad you didn't leave)
>
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