Posted by milly on April 7, 2006, at 11:53:48
In reply to Re: I can't hold back time, hugs needed! » milly, posted by fairywings on April 3, 2006, at 19:48:41
Hi fairywings
> I wouldn't worry about how it sounds Milly. Tell him what you'd wish you'd told him if you didn't tell him at this last appt.....you know what you'd kick yourself for not saying. If it's too hard, maybe you could write it out and let him read it.
** You're right it didn't matter. i wrote it down as a letter and then asked him if I could read it, we were both in tears by the end!!
> It's too bad your husband can't go with you, do the driving, and help with the girls. Does your husband realize what a terribly difficult time this is for you? I only ask bec. my husband just doesn't get it when it comes to therapy, or the upheavals I have.** He's really sweet but he hasn't got a clue! In fact it worked out well because I had 6 hours of solitude in my head to go over what had happened. The girls were sooooo good (I think they had worked out that if I got 'wierd' while I was away they would be stranded!!)
i actually need to be alone after therapy so it was perfect and somehow I managed to drive without incident.
> I admire that you're going ahead with it milly. I know your uncle must adore you and look forward to seeing you and your girls.** Thanks it was areally healing time as 2 of the 3 and I have had a VERY rough patch, they blame me and my 'illness' for everything that goes wrong and I haven't been able to stand up to it so it just drove me lower. I couldn't tell them that the trigger to me being ill was the child abuse I had uncovered at the school, so I just let them believe that I messed up my job!!!
> Please be sure to let us know how you are when you get back! I'll be thinking about you.
> (((milly)))Thanks, knowing I was coming back to my 'babble' family has made this week OK
milly
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