Posted by happyflower on April 4, 2006, at 21:19:10
In reply to Re: It is so hard and scarey, please help me » happyflower, posted by Dinah on April 4, 2006, at 9:09:54
> You do realize that your therapist's week was made by your disclosures.
It is good you are telling me this, because I was thinking he is disapointed in me because I think he really thought I was doing so well. Well maybe he didn't, but kept saying it everyweek for the past couple of months, because he was waiting for me to say, NO I AM NOT DOING WELL. Who knows what they think and know. LOL
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> My therapist *always* says to call. He says if I don't ask for what I want, I'll never have a chance to get it.I think my T believes this too. I just wish I could ask him for a hug, like you did that one day. I know he does hugs little kids if they want one and at termination if you feel like it, but he doesn't as a rule do this. But I still want one, just for a second, just to feel like somebody cares about me for just a second. It would help me open up so much more easier, but I can't tell him that. I can't feel anymore rejection, so I could never ask him for one.
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