Posted by gardenergirl on March 31, 2006, at 13:32:14
In reply to Thanks everyone, posted by gardenergirl on March 29, 2006, at 15:22:44
You know, it has really helped to sort this out more. I feel much better about my feelings about my FIL. They're not so angry and intense. And I can empathize with him more.
Hmmmm, insight helps. Who knew? :)
Of course, I still wonder what it means for me and continuing therapy that I'm doing this more myself. At what point am I "competent", at least for the moment, enough to stop going to therapy?
And of course, since I'm going to marriage counseling, it seems like if I stopped my own therapy while in the middle of that, I might drift into using that time for my own issues versus "our" issues. That wouldn't be fair.
And why am I worrying about this now????
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